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Thursday, October 16, 2008

Anushka's Grandpa going back to India

It's very hard to see people like him. We met him Swetha's park. His house is just opposite to the park and he'll be in the evenings taking care of all the kids , teaching them sharing the things , helping them trying things by themselves .... He's one of the great persons I have ever met. If we go to the park, we can take rest and he'll take care of the kids. I am so admired by his activities and extended my services to the kids in the same way. He has two Grand Kids Anushka and Aarushi. But he always treat everyone as the same. He also used to go for a walk atleast 5 miles a day.They came to our house with the whole family for Navarathri too.

We did not go to the park for the past one week due to the weather .He came to our house yesterday and told us that he'll be leaving to India tomorrow. I know we'll be missing him a lot along with their grand kids. Hope he'll come next year

Let me prey for his safe trip and for his good physical and mental health.


BTW , I forget to ask his name.. We always refer him as "Anushka's thatha "

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Roomla amma madila pal sapdanum[Need to drink milk in amma's lap and inside the closet]

We have hard times for the past 1 week. All day times Swetha is very much fine.When it comes to night , she becomes cranky and does not want to sleep.I used to read her 10-12 story books everyday and she never stops.We have to force her to put in the bed. Even this is fine.For the past 1 week,it becomes very worse.

She wanted to sleep inside the closet. She needs only MOMMY and No DADDY.
I was holding her in the closet , singing songs thinking that she'll sleep within minutes and I can put her in the bed.
She did not. She told me 100 things and then pasikudhu pal venum[feel hungry need milk] and bharat brought milk in the bottle and she want to sleep in my lap and want me to feed her. I did.After some time she wanted to laid down and wanted me to do the same. I did that.She slept around 1 and then we put her in the bed.


Second day , the same thing happened , but never slpet. Bharat scolded me and took her and put her in the bed and she started crying from her lungs.We forced her much and then she slept in our bed.

Third day, we didnot want to go inside the closet nad put her in our bed and wanted her to sleep. I was holding her singing songs ..... She slept around 12 PM.All the time she says room ponum. Amma madila pal sapdanum.

Yesterday it was the worst. Me and Bharat pretend like we slept and she was crying MOMMY , ammmma , endhuruma...
She never slept. After struggling wth her for 3 hours she slept. All the time she says "Roomla amma madila pal sapdanum"

Bharat cannot see her crying continuously. He has 2 reasons. One is it's highly irritating for him seeing her crying from the lungs and the other reason is he has to do office work.His BP shooted up yesterday. He yelled at her and beat her too ... It's hard to see. Tears coming from my heart. I have no idea how to solve the issue.

I want Bharat to keep quiet and leave her crying so that she'll sleep by herself .He for his part does not do that too.

I know we have to lower her energy level down. I cannot take her to the park.it's very chill outside.I am so worried.If any ideas , I really appreciate that

Monday, October 6, 2008